I have heard many such things: Miserable comforters are ye all. Job 16:2 

Sometimes we face hardships in trials in our lives that are too great for us. They are too great for our friends. Sometimes we just need God. Job was going through some stuff and his friends came to help him out. They sat with him for days but Job says that they are miserable comforters. They did not do much to help him. Do we know how to comfort our friends? Are we pointing our friends to God when they are going through stuff?